HOLISTIC PSYCHOTHERAPY IN MASSACHUSETTS

Polyamorous & ENM Relationships Therapy

Supporting authentic connection, emotional clarity, and thriving relationships.

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Are You...

-Feeling overwhelmed by navigating difficult conversations, juggling busy schedules, managing guilt/jealousy, or setting and maintaining boundaries? 

-Questioning yourself and wondering what relationship structure actually works best for you? 

-Craving support from a poly-competent therapist so you can stop spiraling and start finding clarity, healing, and grounded connection?

If this sounds like you, you’re in the right place.

Polyam & ENM Relationships Therapy in Massachusetts

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At Kitchen Table Psychotherapy, I offer inclusive, informed, and compassionate support tailored to individuals and couples in consensual non-monogamous relationship dynamics. Whether you're in Boston, Cambridge, or connecting virtually across Massachusetts, you’ll find a grounded, affirming space here.

Why Work with Me?

  • Expert, Affirming Care: As a provider experienced with polyamorous and ENM issues, I understand your relationship dynamic with openness and respect.

  • Holistic & Tailored Support: I draw from relational, attachment, and trauma‑informed approaches to help you navigate relationships challenges, emotional triggers, and evolving needs.

  • Queer & Neurodivergent Friendly: As a queer-, neurodivergent- and culturally-affirming therapist with lots of experience with LGBTQ, Autism, and ADHD, I am uniquely equipped to support your identities and relationship styles.

  • Flexible Virtual Access: I offer tele-therapy throughout Massachusetts, accessible to you no matter where you are in the state, making it easier to find a provider without conflict of interest, from outside of your existing network.

What I Support You With

  • Navigating Polyam & ENM Dynamics: From exploring desire to negotiating hierarchies, I help you define structure and boundaries that honor and respect everyone’s humanity and autonomy.

  • Complex Emotions: When guilt, insecurity, jealousy, or fear of abandonment feels overwhelming, we work together to understand and move through those emotions.

  • Communication & Agreements: Develop clarity, consent, and flexible agreements without losing compassion or connection.

  • Conflict Resolution & Better Disagreements: Equip yourself with tools to navigate disagreements, miscommunication, and changing relationship needs.

  • Self‑Awareness & Emotional Resilience: Build self‑compassion, identity clarity, and resilience for thriving individual and relational growth.

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Who Benefits Most

  • Polyamorous Individuals: Whether solo or partnered, safe, consensual non‑monogamy can thrive with the right support.

  • Couples/Polycules/Networks: Helping relevant members navigate communication, coordination, hierarchy, solo time, or family planning.

    *Please make a note in your intake request if more than 3 people will be attending therapy.

  • Practicing Ethical Non‑Monogamy: From swinging to relationship anarchy, any ENM model defined by honesty, consent, and mutual respect.

  • New Explorers of Polyamory & ENM: For those just beginning your journey into polyamory or ENM, I provide a grounded space to explore questions, emotions, and possibilities.

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Start the Conversation

If you're practicing ethical non‑monogamy, exploring polyamory, or seeking a safe space to discuss relationship expansion—let’s talk. I offer therapy for clients across Massachusetts, supporting people in Boston, Cambridge, Somerville, Malden, and beyond.

Schedule Your First Session

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Polyamorous and ENM therapy is specialized counseling that supports people in consensual non-monogamous relationships. It helps individuals and partners navigate the unique emotions and communication challenges that arise in polyamory, relationship anarchy, and other ENM models.

  • At the bare minimum, your should look for a therapist who is non-judgmental of non-traditional relationship structures. Ideally, they should also be poly-aware or poly-competent—meaning they understand the language, values, and common issues of ENM relationships. This ensures you receive informed, respectful, and tailored support.

    Here are some questions you can ask:

    • “Have you worked with clients navigating polyamorous or consensually non-monogamous relationships?”

    • “What’s your therapeutic approach and how might it support multiple relationship dynamics?”

    • “Do you know what [a term that’s important to your story] means?”

    It’s not a test to see if they can come up with perfect answers. The purpose of these questions is to help you understand their knowledge and attitude, and make an informed decision on whether you are comfortable working with them.

  • Absolutely. Jealousy, insecurity, guilt, and feelings of abandonment are common and valid experiences in ENM and polyamorous relationships. In fact, they are unavoidable human experiences in any intimate relationships. Together, we work on understanding, processing, and transforming these emotions to support healthier connections.

  • That’s completely fine! Therapy offers a grounded space to explore your feelings, ask questions, and find clarity on what relationship styles or boundaries work best for you and your partners.

  • Yes! I offer flexible tele-therapy throughout Massachusetts, including Boston, Cambridge, and surrounding areas, making it easier for you to access poly-aware therapy from wherever you are.

  • Yes! As a queer-, neurodivergent- and culturally-affirming therapist with lots of experience with LGBTQ, Autism, and ADHD, I am uniquely equipped to support your identities and relationship styles.

  • I support clients who are navigating communication issues, relationship agreements, boundaries, self care and community care, resolving conflicts, family planning, and building emotional resilience in polyamorous and ENM relationships.

    You can share your situation with me in the intake session and I will be honest with you about whether I can help with that or not. If it happens to be outside of my scope of practice, I will help identify specialists who can address your concerns.

  • Book your first session here.

    You can also check out the general FAQ or contact me if you have more questions.